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Friday, September 5, 2008

The importance of passion in relationship

At the beginning of most relationships, you notice that you love to spend lots of time together and talk about everything. After awhile you think the conversation is boring and are starting wonder if you two even have anything in common. It is because you are getting to know each other well... and things seems to be a little too familiar and boring. We tend to ask ourselves, what went wrong.
The answer is simple... Passion is gone.
Passion is what makes any relationship work, successful and happy . It gives relationship the intimacy and friendship in all aspects. Passion is the reason you see couples happy and contented. However, in almost every relationship passion can fade away. Leaving relationships lacking and opening up new doors for many new problems. In every relationship that we are in, we are looking for comfort and happiness. We want to feel that we belong. Without feeling so, we feel empty... something is lacking and missing. Somehow make the couples abandon the ship and look for another.

Now the question is, Can we avoid it? Can we save our relationship from sinking. The answer is yes.
The one over all thing that is needed is communication. And amazingly the thing most couples lack. You both might be filling the same way, you both know what is missing, you both know what is going on... but decided not to talk about it and let it eat you up inside. Now, there is a chance that you feel the loss of spice and your partner does not. More than likely this is going to be the male, it is scientifically proven that males will not pick up on problems as quickly as females will. I think the woman needs for passion and the security it brings is much bigger than the needs of man. So proceed with caution when bringing the subject up. However, normally addressing the issue and doing it with it love and sense of passion itself is the best way to get it resolved quickly and efficiently. Letting your partner know how you feel and how you miss the things you usually do can certainly help bringing the things back as it used to be. Saying I love you more often and doing special things for your partner can bring the passion back in no time.



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